THE CONSCIOUS CONNECTION BETWEEN DOMINATION AND DIVINATION

I have been getting a lot of emails from people wanting to know more about the activation they feel from their inner journey with the video  Goddess Domination ॐ | Erotic Hypnosis for Men | Ravyn Ryder. So going forward I will be including, with all of my videos, a blog post to explain my process, my intention, and the activation I wish to ignite within you. 

Everything that I create is directly channeled from my higher self as a transmission that needs to be heard and experienced, either directly for my soul, or for someone beyond myself. And if you have been following my work you know that my intention is always to awaken the god within. So you wonder, “How is domination a way to awaken the god within?” What all spiritual warriors eventually understand is that along that path of god-like self-mastery there will be much darkness that one must face. In that darkness, we must learn to lean into it, not away from it, without judgment or condemnation. It is the only way we learn. It is the only way we understand. It is the only way we can transform it into something else. 

Admittedly, this particular journey was created selfishly to explore my own desires and fantasies. It is a desire I have come up against time and time again. A desire to be possessed. A wish to be conquered. A need to be dominated. But why? I wondered. In my journey of self-exploration, the only way I have even been able to learn the inner workings of my soul’s needs and my primal desires is to deep dive into them. So I began scouring Youtube hoping to find the perfect domination hypnosis journey that I could wrap my mind around. I could call it research, but mostly it was an inner desire to explore something within me that wanted to be seen. Through my “research” what I found was quite unsettling to my soul. 

For those that are unfamiliar with my history, I have played many parts and explored many realms in the world of erotic artistry. One such part was playing the role of Professional Dominatrix for a couple of years, albeit not your typical dominatrix. I liked to refer to myself as a Sensual Dominatrix. I liked to play with the senses—using toys and tools to tease, prod, beat and delight the body. I was never much of a psychological Domme, wanting nothing to do with humiliation or degradation. But I was always curious about the link between pleasure and pain. There was a sense of curiosity and pleasure that came for me in bringing people to the brink of their limit and finding that at that point something happened—a blurring of the line between pleasure and pain. It fascinated me that the body and mind could desire such torturous pain...but it wasn’t the pain that they were after. It was what came after. The subspace. The place between time and space where everything disappeared and one was able to float in the bliss of relief, accomplishment, ecstasy, and mindlessness. It was a sense of pleasure that one feels they have finally deserved, like a delicious meal after a long day of hard work, or a sweet nap after a big workout. Those pleasures always seem sweeter after one has endured some kind of suffering to get there. 

But a coach does not become great by standing on the sidelines his whole career. He has to also play the game. He must understand all angles. And I can promise you that everything I teach, everything that I offer is something I have gone deeply into. My past is no stranger to torturous means of getting to that place of floating bliss.  It is why I was initially attracted to Kundalini Yoga. I remember my first class— 11 minutes of breath of fire in which your hands remain above the head in a fixed position the entire time. My mind was racing, my body was screaming to be relieved but my determination wanted to push through. When the 11 minutes were over and my hands came down….ahh that sweet relief that reminded me of my tantric dungeon days. I have come to understand it as a training that the body must go through in order to be relieved from its accumulated stagnant and blocked energy. But I won’t go too much into the physical aspects of pleasure and pain. My intention now was to get a better understanding of the psychological desire for domination. 

So back to my Youtube “research”… Beating someone's body until it is red and bruised was one thing but getting into someone’s mind, in my opinion, requires a much greater level of care and responsibility. And while these content creators are creating their own karmic consequences for what they offer to the masses, it gives me an even greater shock to see how many people are giving full consent to being brainwashed into believing that they are weak, pathetic slaves in need of a master to demean and belittle them. 

After my initial shock wore off, I continued my “research” to understand what I like, what I don’t, what turns me on, and what does not—which in turn helps my creative process to bring you a creation which ultimately is a journey within my mind and my most intimate fantasies. 

Often people on a conscious path may be turned off by the notion of S&M, BDSM, and the whole kink movement that has been on the rise for the last decade. For those that know me, they will tell you that I am highly dedicated to following a spiritual path of awakened and self-discovery. But I have always done so without judgment or condemnation. Instead, I try to move through the darkness with curiosity and a desire to understand. Because I know that if that darkness is out there, it is, on some level, within me. And deep down, every fetish, every desire to endure pain or enforce pain comes from some wound that has yet been healed. 

So when I fall into my desire to be controlled, when I feel myself being turned on by being called a “good girl”, when I want to completely let go of the reins, I allow it because I know that the examination of that which lives within me only brings me closer to healing certain aspects of my soul’s wounds. 

And for me, when I look deep below the surface, I understand where these desires come from. I understand that ultimately they come from my desire for freedom—my desire to be free from responsibility, from making decisions, from feeling like everything is on my shoulders. It is a desire to feel like a child again. To be taken care of, to be a good little girl who has yet lost her innocence to the ravishes of life. And I allow my little girl to partake in this fantasy, knowing that, for me, the realm of sexuality is merely a stage to act out all primal desires, fantasies, and wounds that need to be expressed. And when that curtain comes down, the empowered adult leaves the stage and re-enters the world where reality and fantasy are two very different things. 

So in your practice with this hypnosis journey, I hope that you will 1. Allow yourself to be taken by your inner fantasies without judgment or fear and 2. Then examine which aspect of yourself gets turned on by this fantasy and how seeing these facets of yourself can propel you deeper into your heal and further along your path of god-like self-mastery! 

I would love to hear what you are discovering. Please share a comment or drop me an email!

MORE TO COME: If this topic interests you and you have a desire to further understand the desire for domination and the correlation between pleasure and pain, you will love my new Erotic Bedtime Story series coming out soon. Stay tuned... 

Now go live your bliss and shine your light!