BETTER THAN PORN™ SERIES

What is porn? A passive sexual experience in which you are merely an observer, sitting in the backseat, trying to take pleasure in a pixelated world as an outsider. 

If you haven’t yet read my blog: 3 Effects of Porn That are Totally FUCKING UP Your Life, please check it out.

How would you like to have a virtual experience where you are in the driver’s seat—where you are in the experience and truly feeling the connection? 

We believe that Virtual Reality is the wave of the future—our next means of gratification that can make us feel like life is real. But this technology has drastic impacts on the brain and psyche that bring absolutely no benefit to our body and soul. The only thing that it satisfies is the primal gratification mechanism rooted in our reptilian DNA. 

My new series, Better Than Porn™ sets out to bring quantum technology and soul enlightenment together in the most healing and loving way possible. 

Each audio recording is a ceremonial session of self-please in which I am feeling you through the cosmos. While it seems my transmissions were created in the past, as the illusion of time and space dissolve in the quantum world, it will begin to feel like I am there with you, in that moment, and like the recording was made just for you. And maybe it was! Maybe I was feeling YOU through the waves of cosmos and was tapping into exactly what you need and want in this exact moment. 

The instructions are to enter into these sessions like a meditation. Center and ground yourself. Become present, close your eyes, and ignite your imagination as you begin to imagine feeling me, tasting me, making love to me….to me, or to any connection your imagination can come up with. 

Another flaw that porn has is the loss of imagination and creativity. Like the difference between watching a movie and reading a book, certain centers of the brain, mainly the neocortex and thalamus are worked when we engage our imagination. It is vitally important to strengthen these centers as they are also responsible for your ability to manifest abundance and love. If you cannot imagine a better future for yourself, you cannot create it. So these sessions, unlike porn will give you the beautiful opportunity to engage and ignite these imaginative hubs of the brain. 

If you already have a strong meditation practice you will be able to go even deeper with these experiences, feeling a greater level of connection so it is good to combine the two into your sexual mastery practice. 

Each session will have a different feel meant to trigger different parts of your sexual awareness. Some may trigger your beauty and some may trigger your wounds. There is no right or wrong when it comes to your sexuality. Like everything in this reality, it is all just energy—a reflection for us to better understand ourselves and the conditions around us. 

After each session, there will be a short period set up for meditation. During this time reflect upon your experience. As sexuality is one of the greatest energies available in this reality, we are given an opportunity for amplified reflection while in this energy. Dive deep. What was a turn-on for you? Was there anything that triggered an old wounding that needs to be examined? Take what serves you and what you want to manifest into your material reality and leave the rest. 

My intention with these offerings is to give you an alternative to porn and an experience that feels more real and connected than anything you have ever felt observing pixelated sex performances. In this experience, I hope to transcend you into a place of ethereal oneness where you will be able to feel what the vibration of love truly feels like. Through this understanding, it is my hope that you will simply have no draw to lower vibrational porn and will become more empowered in your life to attract the true vibration of love. 

But most importantly it is my intention for you to understand your god-like essence, the depths of your pleasure centers, and the capacity you have within to experience immense levels of ecstasy, bliss, connection, divinity, and love. 

BENEFITS (WITH REGULAR USE):

• Rewire the brain and nervous system to positively link pleasure and love

• Level up your meditation practice

• Help to release porn addiction

• Increase concentration and focus using the power of sexual energy during meditation

• Remove shame and inability to accept pleasure

• Reprograms beliefs of unworthiness or low self-worth

• Increases the powers of imagination and creation

• Increases stamina

• Increases pleasure

USE FOR THE PRACTICE OF:

• Medibation

• Saving your seed

• Energetic orgasm

• Stamina building

• Connecting with your body and breath

• Connecting with a higher source

• Relaxing and controlling the nervous system

• Rewiring the brain

• Cultivating the imagination

• Concentrating the mind

So join me on this journey. RELAX. LET GO. AND ENJOY!

3 Effects of Porn That are Totally FUCKING UP Your Life

EFFECTS OF PORN ON THE BRAIN, YOUR RELATIONSHIPS AND YOUR LIFE 

The Mind as a Tool

In a culture that has begun to identify the mind as self, we need a shift to understand that the mind is merely a tool. We are not defined by it and we do not need to be controlled by it. This tool can either become your best friend or your worst enemy. During a time where imagination has taken a backseat to the views and beliefs of technology and political agenda, creation of the mind has become a sad, atrophied muscle. 

Effects of Porn on the Brain

With the emergence of porn becoming readily accessible at the tip of your fingers, we have become a society addicted to the intensity of pixelated gratification. Whether the occasional or habitual viewer of porn, it may be having a greater effect on your life than you know.

1. Negative Emotion Dopamine Release

What is Dopamine

Dopamine is all about seeking and searching for rewards— the anticipation, the wanting, the gratification. Dopamine provides the motivation and drive to pursue potential rewards or long term goals.

Beyond drugs, food and adventure, sexual excitement releases the HIGHEST levels of dopamine and opioids. Reproduction is hard wired as job one in our genes and therefore has the highest output for such drives. 

Negative Dump

The amount of dopamine that surges through the brain during porn activity has been recorded in staggering amounts. Although often referred to as the “pleasure molecule,” dopamine can also be released in high intensities due to emotions opposite to pleasure. These bursts of dopamine have detrimental effects on the brain, psyche and spirit at large. 

Huge surges of negative dopamine release from porn are due to

• Negative emotions such as: shame, guilt, disgust, embarrassment, anxiety & fear

• The drive to seek and search

• The excitement of newness and things that violate expectation creating emotions of shock, awe, and surprise. 

“Many of these emotional states (anxiety, shame, shock, surprise) not only elevate dopamine, but each can also boost stress hormones & neurotransmitters (norepinephrine, epinephrine, cortisol). These stress neurochemicals increase excitement while amplifying dopamine’s already powerful effects. Over time a porn user’s brain can mistake feelings of anxiety or fear for feelings of sexual arousal. This helps explain why some porn users escalate into ever more shocking or anxiety invoking porn – as they need that extra neurochemical jolt just to become sexually aroused, or to orgasm.”

~Sourced from www.YourBrainonPorn.com 

2. Coolidge Effect

Another draw that porn provides is the sheer amount of novelty. One can scroll through pages and pages of arousing images and videos. They can have multiple tabs open. They can fast forward to the peak of each video. And they can do this endlessly, if so desired. Just think about the unhealthy amounts of dopamine that are surging through the brain during such activity. But the main issue with novelty goes much deeper and can be further elucidated by the Coolidge Effect. 

“Here’s how the Coolidge Effect works: The rat’s reward circuitry is squirting less and less dopamine with respect to the current female, but produces a big dopamine surge for a new female. Does that sound familiar?

Not surprisingly, rats and humans aren’t that different when it comes to response to novel sexual stimuli. For example, when Australian researchers displayed the same erotic film repeatedly, test subjects’ penises and subjective reports both revealed a progressive decrease in sexual arousal. The “same old same old” just gets boring. Habituation indicates declining dopamine.

After 18 viewings—just as the test subjects were nodding off—researchers introduced novel erotica for the 19th and 20th viewings. Bingo! The subjects and their penises sprang to attention. (Yes, women showed similar effects.)

Internet porn is especially enticing to the reward circuitry because novelty is always just a click away. It could be a novel “mate,” unusual scene, strange sexual act, or—you fill in the blank.”

~Sourced from www.YourBrainonPorn.com 

This effect is having a huge impact on human connection. Driven to seek dopamine through novelty creates higher levels of infidelity, preference of porn over human connection and inability to reach climax with a non-novel partner. 

3. Negative Spiritual Imprint

These are just some of the known scientific consequences of porn. This doesn’t even cover the spiritual ramifications that porn has on our psyche and what we are manifesting in our lives. 

With reproduction being hardwired in our DNA as our top job, orgasm is the MOST powerful natural reinforcer that we have. Being so, our brain automatically tries to remember everything associated with this powerful experience, like an imprint. What it is doing is linking that big moment of climax with whatever you are experiencing in that moment and imprints it into your brain and psyche stronger than any other day to day experience. In the case of regular porn uses it is imprinting voyeurism, searching/seeking, endless novelty, fetishes, multiple porn stars, multiple tabs, strange acts, fear, pain, shock, surprise, anxiety, etc.

To sum it up, this is what porn provides to you:

• A disillusioned version of what sex is and should be.

• Unlimited supply of novelty that drives your brain to become addicted to newness.

• An elevation of dopamine for abnormally long periods of time creating addiction and depletion in your brain.

• A boost of stress hormones & neurotransmitters due to negative emotional states that porn induces. 

• Negative associations of arousal making healthy intimacy difficult.

Instead

If not porn then what? Remember that thing we call The Imagination? Remember creating entire worlds and characters with the imagination when you were young? Well if you are lucky enough to have been born after 1995 then you should still have cultivated the part of the brain when you were a child. 

In one study it was found that children that were read to often had healthy development in the frontal lobe and occipital lobe, responsible for imagination. However children that were mainly engaged in screen time showed little to no development in those regions of the brain. 

Why do we want to cultivate the imagination?

An interesting consequence revealed by the study showed was that children and adults that do not have an active imagination lose the power of creation. If one cannot imagine a better future, one cannot create it. If one cannot imagine who they wish to be, they will never become that. In essence you have a race of beings perfectly programmed to do as they are told without question, without the ability to imagine anything beyond what is right in front of them. This ties in very closely with the concepts of manifestation and law of attraction. Think about it!

Pleasure Rituals

As I have discussed before, the most powerful time of creation and manifestation can be done during our self pleasure rituals. Imagine what you are sending out into the universe when you release to the imagery of a woman being demeaned, disempowered and abused versus creating within the mind your godliness being with a woman of strength, power and beauty. What you manifest depends greatly on what you are consuming and putting out into the universe. Check out my blog: 5 ANCIENT TANTRIC TECHNIQUES TO HELP YOU FUCK LIKE A GOD for amazing sexual mastery techniques that you can incorporate into your pleasure rituals. 

Mission

One of my missions is to help people remove the need to seek porn for gratification, as a replacement for human connection and as a way to fill the emptiness they may feel inside. Imagine how different your brain, your relationships and the larger picture of your life would be if you could reach a point where you no longer sought out porn. If you would like to discuss more ways of creating a porn-free life, please reach out.